How Older Adults Can Overcome Loneliness

According to a 2019 Time magazine article, one out of every three seniors is lonely. While that might not seem like a big deal, loneliness is actually fast becoming one of the biggest health hazards of our time. Data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) has found that social isolation and loneliness increase the risk of health complications, including dementia, heart disease, depression and anxiety, for older adults.

The COVID-19 pandemic has certainly exacerbated social isolation and the feeling of loneliness for many people, especially seniors. Since social distancing is one of the best solutions to the public health crisis, there isn’t much we can do to be physically near one another and stay safe from harm; however, there are ways to encourage social interactions while following CDC guidelines during the pandemic.

Take Up a New Hobby

Whether you’re interested in painting, knitting, fly fishing, scrapbooking, learning a language, or joining a book club, anything goes! With so many options, you’re sure to find something of interest. Not only will you exercise your brain by learning and doing an activity, but you’ll also have the opportunity to connect with others who share your interest. With in-person connection off the table, there are lots of digital spaces for people to convene around a shared hobby—and remote connection definitely counts in the fight against loneliness.

Connect in Digital Spaces

Virtual interactions are a great way to stay connected with others across distances or in spite of circumstances that may prevent you from going out to socialize. Some older adults can feel daunted by new technology, but there are quite a few user-friendly applications available with the simple touch of a button on your smartphone or computer.

Many people use social media sites, like Facebook, to connect with loved ones, but other options exist, too:

  • HearMe is an app designed for emotional health and well-being; it allows you to have text conversations with trained volunteers about whatever is on your mind.
  • Happy was created to ensure that every person feels heard, understood and encouraged. This app allows you to engage in telephone conversations with compassionate people who are ready and willing to lend an ear.
  • There are even options for virtual counseling now, too—apps like Talkspace connect you with a licensed therapist and are even covered under some insurance plans.

Adopt a Pet

Having a furry friend around the house is a great way to help combat social isolation and loneliness. While they may not be able to have a conversation with you, pets are great at keeping their humans company. If you plan to go this route, do your research: You’ll want to choose a pet that matches your lifestyle, energy level and mobility. Keep in mind the animal’s diet, activity needs and temperament before committing to make sure the endeavor will be a help, not a hindrance.

Don’t let loneliness get the best of you! If you’re feeling socially isolated or in need of social activity, plenty of options exist to help facilitate the kind of connection that works for you. Using this list as a starting point, you can be striking up conversations, sharing interests and making friends in no time.

Getting out and about in later life – your guide

Whether you’re looking for advice on taking a day trip, holiday inspiration, or ideas for an outing everyone can enjoy, our guide is here to help you.

You never hear anyone talk about ‘The Great Indoors’ – and there’s probably a good reason for that.

After all, a healthier, more fulfilling life begins the moment you step outside your own four walls and explore the world around you. And that’s as true for those in later life as it is for everyone else.

Even if an older person can’t get around like they used to, a simple change of scenery could be exactly what they need to keep their spirits high. Even short outings for seniors can have a positive effect on both mental and physical wellbeing. Spending time outside can increase mood boosting chemicals in the brain, and provides gentle exercise to support heart and joint health.

In this guidewe’ll give you a few ideas to get you started, and talk you through the things you might need to bear in mind ahead of your trip. Plus, we’ll introduce you to a whole range of dementia-friendly options that are making trips away increasingly effortless for carers and families dealing with the condition.

 

Get inspired

From countryside walks to world-class museums, there are lots of great days out in Britain for those in later life.

Accessibility has improved enormously over the past couple of decades, and you’re bound to find all sorts of support to help you arrange a successful day. This means there’s no need to compromise – an older person can pick and choose the sorts of things they’ve always enjoyed doing, or wanted to do.

So where might you want to go? Here are some ideas to get you started.

Walks

There’s nothing like fresh air and a stretch of the legs to recharge your elderly relative’s batteries. A walk through tranquil countryside or to a local beach is a great way to do just that, and one the whole family can enjoy.

Even if an older person’s mobility is limited, there are lots of websites dedicated to wheelchair-friendly walks, including Accessible Countryside for Everyone, Euan’s Guide, Walks with Wheelchairs and The Outdoor Guide. You’ll also find an accessibility guide on the government’s national parks website.

Gardens

Keen gardeners might like to take a look at one of the many gardens participating in The National Open Garden Scheme (NGS). This annual event provides a great opportunity to peek into other people’s patches, and see the hard work of over 3700 people who open up their private gardens for the visiting public. You can find out the nearest gardens to you in the NGS online directory.

The National Trust also has 200 formal gardens and parks to explore around the UK, many of which host special events throughout the spring and summer. And there’ll always be a tea shop for a welcome cuppa and a piece of cake at the end of your walk.

Local markets and community events

Local events like school fetes, food markets, car boot sales, and street parties are a great way for older people to stay connected to their community, and even make new friends. Being close to home means that those who struggle with low energy or mobility can still do something a bit different, without the pressure of a full day out. To find events, keep an eye on local papers and Facebook groups. Most community events are arranged with accessibility in mind, but if in doubt contact the organisers.

Reserves and sanctuaries

The RSPB has done a lot to ensure its bird reserves across the UK are accessible. They provide full information on dedicated accessibility pages on its website, and in an illustrated, downloadable access statement for each reserve.

Support includes visitor centres with accessible toilets and cafes and dedicated Blue Badge parking bays. There are a range of short and long routes to choose from, all with wide, level paths, regular resting places and seated bird hides. You can also hire mobility scooters and wheelchairs.

For a more enclosed setting, you might want to try a local animal sanctuary or a bird centre, such as the Bird of Prey Centre in Bedfordshire. Petting zoos and farm visits are also an option, though many may not be suitable for wheelchairs and walking frames.

Heritage sites

Both the National Trust and English Heritage are custodians of some of the UK’s most beautiful buildings and grounds – and the tea shops are hard to beat.

They’ve done a lot of work to make their locations as accessible as possible, and most offer disabled toilets and visitors centres on site. But it’s important to check out your chosen building ahead of time, as some may not be fully accessible given their architecture.

You can consult accessibility maps online, or call the property ahead of time for information. And if you think you’ll make visits a regular habit, look into becoming a member of the organisations for benefits such as free entry and invitations to special events.

Tour bus trips

Many cities throughout the UK offer tour bus trips for seniors and the whole family to take in the local history and landmarks.

Operators often run a ‘hop on, hop off’ scheme, which gives you the freedom to alight and explore on foot as much or as little as you like. This can be especially reassuring for those with mobility problems, . These services can be particularly busy in summer during the holiday season, so it’s recommended to book your tickets in advance to ensure you get a seat.

Watching sports

Whatever sport an older person is into, all major venues should have support in place to cater for a diverse range of mobility needs.

The Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park in London, for example, was purpose-built for the 2012 Olympic Games and Paralympics, and has numerous accessible venues, including the Copper Box Arena and the London Aquatics Centre. You’ll find other great suggestions for accessible venues – from cricket grounds to football pitches – on AgeUK’s dedicated page.

Keep in mind that if they have been diagnosed with dementia, they may struggle with the noise and amount of people. But there are often smaller, local sports events which might help you meet them in the middle: smaller horse racing meets, tennis matches and local football matches, for example.

Theatre and cinema

If the arts are more their thing, you’ll find lots of opportunity to indulge their love of them.

Many performances often have special rates for older people during weekdays, making it a particularly cost-effective option. In theatres, you’ll likely have to stick to the stalls at ground level, but ask about accessibility ahead of time and they may well be able to provide disabled seating in the upper circles.

Museums and displays

There are plenty of museums to explore around the UK, from the local to the world-class.

London is full of great collections, including the British Museum, V&A and Imperial War Museum. Open-air museums are harder to come by, but with COVID-19 still a worry for some, the person you’re supporting might feel more comfortable in an outside space. Outside the M25 you’ll find the likes of Beaulieu National Motor Museum, RAF Cosford or Duxford Air Museum. All of these benefit from lots of space and good accessibility.

If they’re sight impaired, there are often large text, braille and audio tours available to enhance the experience. The Royal National Institute of Blind People (RNIB) can provide more information on this sort of thing.

Ride on a steam train

Relive the good old days with a ride on a steam train, while enjoying lunch and the sights of rural Britain. It’s a great trip for the whole family, and keeps those who need mobility support in mind. With ramps from platforms and wide passageways, these steam trains have been lovingly preserved and are a great way to see Britain.

You can find the nearest steam route near you on the Visit Britain, the UK & Ireland Heritage or Welcome To Scotland websites.

Other activities

If you’re still short of inspiration for outings and fancy exploring a bit more, The Carers Trust charity has a list of ideas to act as a starting point, while OpenBritain provides a simple way to find accessible destinations and places to stay around the UK.

How to make stairs case safe for the elderly

It may not be practical for your elderly relative to move home, particularly if they are receiving elderly care at home services, rather than moving into residential care or sheltered housing. However, there are plenty of things that you can do to make the steps and stairs around their home safer, reducing the risk of accidents.

Some staircases are more hazardous than others, so take time to examine all steps and stairs around your loved one’s home, to see whether simple improvements could make a difference to their safety.

Make alterations to open tread stairs

Open tread stairs are particularly hazardous, as they trick the eye, and can cause confusion, particularly for those living with dementia. It may not be practical, or convenient, to completely replace a staircase, but simply boxing in open tread stairs can make a big difference in stair safety.

Add handrails

Most staircases have a handrail or bannister to one side, but for elderly people who may be unsteady on their feet, handrails on both sides of the stairs provide additional support.

Make sure that handrails are comfortable and sturdy, and at a size that fits your elderly relative’s hand comfortably. The bars should be firmly secured to the wall at elbow height to provide maximum support. Be sure to test that they can hold an adult’s body weight without becoming detached from the wall or post. If possible, arrange for the handrail to continue a little further than the length of the staircase, for optimum safety.

Improve lighting

Dim or dark stairwells are an accident waiting to happen, particularly for an elderly person with failing eyesight, so make sure that lighting is up to the task. Hire an electrician to install light switches at the top and bottom of the stairs, to encourage your loved one to switch them on and off as needed.

A desire to save money can cause many older people to attempt to negotiate stairs in darkness, rather than leave a light burning continuously. Make sure that your relative’s eyesight is regularly checked, and that prescription lenses are maintained at peak condition so that they can clearly see where they are stepping.

Appropriate stair covering

Old and worn stair carpets are a slip and trip hazard, so replace them with new, non-slip carpeting, and have it installed by a qualified carpet fitter. It can be helpful to highlight stair nosings with non-slip tape in bright colours, particularly the top and bottom steps of a flight, which is where the majority of accidents occur.

Remove hazards

Rugs should never be placed close to a staircase, as they increase the risk of tripping and falling. Check stairs and steps for any potential dangers, such as items of furniture nearby that could cause your loved one to trip or stumble. Ideally, the route to a staircase should be clear, well lit and uncluttered.

Appropriate footwear

If your loved one experiences any mobility problems, the correct footwear can be helpful, providing excellent grip and support for the feet. Old or worn shoes and slippers should be thrown out and replaced with sturdy and practical footwear with a non-slip sole.

Stair safety techniques

You may need to spend time teaching your elderly relative techniques for negotiating stairs more safely. High quality live-in care agencies, such as those offering dementia care, will provide carers who can offer support for most trips up and down the stairs. It’s still worth taking the time to go over stair safety from time to time, to make sure that the message is retained and understood.

Encourage your loved one to take the stairs slowly, concentrating on one step at a time. Trying to rush will almost certainly lead to an accident eventually, so exercise patience and emphasise the importance of taking time over every step.

Extra caution needs to be employed if your loved one uses a mobility aid, such as a walking stick which, used incorrectly, has the potential to become an additional hazard, rather than a method of support.

Your loved one may benefit from a visit by a physiotherapist, who can show them safer ways of negotiating stairs, particularly if they have experienced a stroke or symptoms of dementia, which can affect their depth perception, making stairs even more hazardous for them.

Stair aids

Special stair-climbing aids are available that can effectively lower the height of each tread on a staircase, Comprising a walking stick attached to a large flat box, the aid provides a stable support mid-way between each tread.

Over time, it may be worth investing in a dedicated stair lift, which will make it easier than ever for your loved one to negotiate a staircase on their own.

Elderly physical activity and independence

As we get older, it can become more and more difficult to get around. Even the simplest of tasks – popping to the shops, getting up and down stairs and so on – can become much more challenging with stiff and painful joints.

But your loved one shouldn’t have to say goodbye to their independence altogether. Medical and technological advances are already making major improvements to the lives of those with mobility troubles, and the right kind of care can play a key role in building preventative measures into their routine – as well as supporting those day-to-day activities that might otherwise be off-limits.

In this guide, we’ll take a look at the joints that are most vulnerable in later life, and the sorts of mobility issues you might expect to arise. We’ll also explore the importance of diet and exercise in sustaining mobility in the long term, and how you can make a difference to your loved one’s lifestyle right away.

Knees and Hips

As the two biggest joints in the human body, your loved one’s knees and hips have had to bear the brunt of a lifetime of physical activity. It’s no surprise, then, that they’re some of the most common complaints among the elderly.

Why do we get knee and hip pain?

The hips are a ball and socket joint, which means they can rotate in multiple different directions. The knees are a hinge joint, and can only move back and forth.

Both rely on muscle, ligaments or cartilage to move smoothly and painlessly. Joint pain is a symptom of the damage done to these components, through years of general wear or by injury, inactivity or excessive exercise. After all, knees take the pressure of 1.5 times the weight of your body with regular walking on even ground, which almost doubles when ascending and descending stairs.

This can manifest itself in multiple different ways, including an inflammation of the sac of skin over the joint (known as bursitis), or eroded and swollen cartilage (arthritis). The good news is there are some measures they can take to ease their pain and speed up the healing process.

How to manage knee and hip pain

For those with severe pain, joint replacements and other medical options have dramatically improved mobility. But to prevention is always preferable to cure, and there are a number of things you can do to care for your joints.

Regular exercise

Contrary to the belief that rest is the best medicine for sore joints, the right kind and amount of exercise can actually prove fundamental for easing soreness or stiffness. There are plenty of exercises and tips to stay healthy out there and it’s worth looking into.

It doesn’t matter if your elderly relative hasn’t had a particularly active lifestyle up to now, or if they’re already experiencing joint pain. It’s never too late to start. The key is simply not to overdo it, and to look into low impact exercise so as not to cause more damage to the joints.

Water aerobics and swimming are perfect examples. The natural resistance of water can allow for more movement than on dry land without putting unnecessary pressure on the joints themselves. And, as a bonus, the warmth of the pool can help soothe any aches and pains.

But if dry land is more your loved one’s cup of tea, yoga and Tai Chi are proven to improve flexibility in joints, as well as one’s overall balance. This is particularly important as it’ll serve to limit the risk of future falls and accidents when your loved one is up and about.

Many local gyms and recreation centres offer classes specifically designed for older people, but if not, it might still be worth enquiring if they can cater for your loved one in their regular classes. Many elderly people are welcome to take part in such activities, and instructors are usually happy to accommodate varying levels of ability.

The most important thing is that they listen to their body. When they feel too much tightness in their muscles, it’s time to stop. Heat is beneficial before exercise because it allows for increased muscle flexibility, while ice is best applied after a workout, to prevent inflammation.

Even if your loved one doesn’t want to get involved in organised classes to stay fit and healthy, they may find simply waking to the shops or up and down stairs can make all the difference. Whatever it is they choose to do, they should aim to be active for at least half an hour a day, five days a week. This will help keep their weight down (which can put extra pressure on joints), as well as keep muscles and bones strong.

Consult a medical professional on how best to do build up slowly, rather than pushing the body into too much, too quickly. The objective of physical therapy is also to increase both the range of motion in the joint, and the muscle which gives it the joint the quality of support it requires. You might find your elderly relatives are a little resistant to suggestions of exercise, but over time, exercising will get easier.

Exercise is just one part of a healthy lifestyle. Diet and hydration are just as essential – not only for the best results within the body, but to make training more efficient.

No matter how much your loved one looks after their own body to reduce the risk of falls and broken bones, accidents may still occur. To cover all ground, look into home safety for the eldery for some great tips on how to reduce accidents at home. Make bathrooms safe for the elderly, especially, will be a high priority as this is where a lot of slips can occur.

If your loved one lives in a house with more than one floor, look into how to make stairs safe for older people too. If implementing specialist modifications in your relatives home to help them stay independent for longer are not your forte, invest in the help of a Home Improvement Agency for any alterations or adaptations.

Diet

It goes without saying that a balanced and wholesome diet is essential for overall health – as well as reducing the risk of high cholesterol, and protecting the joints.

But the more you weigh, the more your bones and joints are put to work. And that’s just the start: there are lots of nutrients your bones and joints need for their repair and development, and without them, your loved one will struggle even more.

Supplements and vitamins for these nutrients are readily available in pill form, but your elderly relative may already be taking a number of medications and not want to add more pills to their rota. Fortunately, it’s easier than ever to find healthy, nutritious sources of everything your loved one needs.

  • Calcium is the mineral in bone which causes its rigidity and hardness. Sources include dairy products, soya milk, tofu, sardines, salmon, figs, beans, broccoli, tinned tomatoes, dried apricots, oranges, almonds and brazil nuts. If your loved one is dairy free, make sure they get their calcium intake from elsewhere
  • Vitamin D assists the body with calcium absorption. It can be found in fatty fish – tuna, salmon and mackerel – eggs, portobello mushrooms, beef liver, cod liver oil and cheese
  • Vitamin K facilitates the production of a protein necessary for the making of bone. Good sources include Brussels sprouts, kale, spinach, cabbage, spring onions and prunes
  • Protein is good for muscles, and can be found in meats, fish, nuts, beans, chickpeas, peas, soybeans and lentils.

 

If your loved one is on Warfarin (a widely prescribed anticoagulant), be aware that the consumption of too much vitamin K can make the drug less effective in preventing blood clots. If in doubt, always consult a doctor.

Anti-inflammatory foods can help with conditions where the tissue around the joints becomes inflamed, such as arthritis and bursitis. Some good examples include:

  • Potatoes and sweet potatoes
  • Coconut milk
  • Salmon
  • Kale and spinach
  • Nuts

 

Above all, a healthy diet is all about eating on a frequent basis. If the body isn’t getting enough food, it will store fat to keep from starving and will cause weight loss. It’s not good for your loved one to dramatically cut down on food intake. This is more common than you’d think when someone lives alone or has difficulty preparing meals or shopping for themselves. Proper nutrition is a medicine in and of itself.

The RICE strategy

According to a report by AgeUK, an elderly person who has a fall has a 50 percent chance of suffering from some degree of mobility problem.

If your loved one has a fall, there’s a simple procedure you can follow before seeking medical attention. It’s called the RICE strategy, and it goes as follows:

  • Rest: Try to keep from aggravating the injury further by giving it some time to heal. Keep the injured area still and comfortable while you continue with the procedure.
  • Ice: This helps reduce swelling and ease the pain (though it is ineffective on deep hip injuries). Wrap ice cubes in a kitchen towel, and apply them to the injured area for 20 minutes at a time, with equal breaks in between to avoid frostbite.
  • Compression: This works alongside icing to reduce swelling. Wrap up the injury with a bandage tight enough to provide support, but not so tight you reduce blood flow to the area.
  • Elevation: This will prevent blood from gathering and causing further pain. Elevate the injured area by propping the knee or ankle up on pillows, if possible, above the level of the heart.

 

Once the swelling has gone done, the next step is to apply heat. This will ease stiffness and bring some flexibility back to the muscle. Simply by immersing the area in warm bathwater, or apply a hot towel to the affected area, for half an hour intervals throughout the day.

Mobility aids

Your loved one’s doctor might recommend mobility aids to improve daily living, such as a cane or a walking frame to take some of the weight off their knees and hips.

They can help to prevent falls and injuries, as well as increase mobility and stability on existing injuries. They are a temporary aid to improve and sustain mobility rather than a permanent fixture.

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